Saturday, August 27, 2011

One Last Time

Ok, I said that we would not have anymore orphanage updates for a while but I was wrong! Our contact got to have one last visit to the baby house before she left the country! I'll let her tell you about it.


Today was my last chance to say goodbye to the baby house. It was a sweet time and I was incredibly thankful for the opportunity to snuggle these precious angels one last time. I spent some time explaining to the workers why we have to leave the country and how very sad we are. One worker sat down with my friend and I and offered us tea and candy while we chatted. It was very kind of them and I take that gesture as a sign of our camaraderie.  I've always wanted them to know we consider ourselves part of their team and only desire to be a blessing and help to them. Then a bit later I asked permission to take some photos since I will be leaving forever. I didn't want to get my hopes up knowing that usually it is not allowed.

They. said. YES!

My heart was pounding while I raced to get my camera out. I could hardly believe it. I would finally be able to capture the faces of these darling babies and remember them in my heart forever. Now you can finally look into the eyes that have stolen my heart. May you be touched forever by these images.










I'm so excited about these pictures! I hope you were as blessed by them as I was. Also, I would like to give a big BIG thank you to Florence Christian Church.  You guys are awesome and I pray that God blesses you all for your generosity.  Thank you so so so much! 


-Lindsey

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

The End of an Era.

Dear Readers,


If you follow this blog with any regularity you will have noticed a significant decrease in orphanage updates from our contact lately.  This is because she has been in and out of the country due to visa problems.  As I have said before, the country is very politically unstable and the government there does not like foreigners. Well, I am so sad to tell you all that our contact is being forced to leave.  They gave her two weeks to sell or pack up all her belongings.  She is heartbroken that she has to leave but she says she has many trustworthy friends who volunteered alongside her at the orphanages. She will ask around to see if anyone would be willing to write about their volunteering experiences for us. So until then, there won't be any updates but you are still free to donate if you wish.  All the money will still go straight to the children.  So please keep our friend in your prayers. And thank you so much for being a great correspondent. I will miss reading your notes.  This will probably be her last note to the LBDP, not about the orphanages neccessarily, but about saying goodbye.


Life has been on fast-forward the past few weeks and I've hardly had any time to settle my thoughts. It's crazy how one event or one decision can change everything.

Two months ago I was in America buying and stocking up on items to bring back home with me. One minute I'm planning my life as normal, the next minute everything turns upside-down.  And now here I am, selling those very items I just bought.

Why?

We are moving.

Long story short, we have to leave the country. We are no longer able to live and work here. It was not something we were prepared for. We thought we knew what these next years of life held for us. We were focused on our work here and were excited for what was planned. And all it took was one decision for our lives to be drastically altered.

Not only do we have to leave, but we have to leave in two weeks.

Packing up your life in two weeks, does that sound easy? Not so much.

How do you spend good quality time with your friends and find complete closure in such a short period of time? How do you process everything, pray through everything, think through everything? How do you calm yourself down when you feel overwhelmed and stressed with all that lies ahead? How do you make yourself take a break for a moment when you realize all that needs to be done? How do you spend quality time with your child when you should be packing and cleaning 24/7? How do you explain to your 2 1/2 year old that life is going to change drastically? It's tough. It's really tough. Ask me in about one month how to do it all and I'll have the answer. As for right now, I'm just trying to live through it.

I didn't really think I was attached to "things". We try to live simply and hold loosely to our possessions. But small as it may be, the amount of stuff we have is still dear to my heart.  As I sort through my daughter's clothes and toys and my household items... my heart starts to break as I face the fact that I will part with these things forever. We simply cannot take back all our possessions across the ocean. It's not practical financially. But the most important reason we are giving/selling most of our possessions? Because our friends here cannot find good quality American items anywhere else, unless people like us moving away leave it for them.

So I'm saying goodbye to her train set with the little people and cars she's played with since day one here. I'm saying goodbye to the books I read to her every single night. I'm saying goodbye to her little keyboard her Nana brought from America. I'm saying goodbye to sweet pink little baby girl clothes and shoes. I'm saying goodbye to the gorgeous bedding set I've loved so dearly. I'm saying goodbye to Christmas ornaments and Thanksgiving candles. I'm saying goodbye to incredibly life-changing books I've dragged across the world. I'm saying goodbye to all these earthly possessions that essentially have zero eternal value. I'm saying goodbye to the wonderful, adventurous life we have lived here, and saying hello to an unknown future ahead of us.

We thought this was "it" for us. We thought this was "the place" we were ending up for a good long while. I feel like Abraham, or Moses, or Joseph- being moved around from place to place not sure where Father has in mind. But one thing I do know for sure, I know the One who holds my future in His hands. And that, my friends, is the safest place to be.

Here we come America. Let's see what you have in store for us this time :)




Tuesday, August 2, 2011

HEAR Some Good News!

Hey, guys! I know it's been a while since we've had an orphanage update. Our contact has been pretty busy lately, but she has some good news for us. Keep reading!

Remember the disabilities orphanage I've visited a few times? Well we have some exciting news about one of the boys living there!

About a year ago I wrote about how our youth group raised over $1,000 for two deaf teenagers to receive hearing aides! It was amazing to see how hard our youth worked preparing for a bake sale and worship concert to raise the funds. My favorite part about the whole thing is how the teenagers were also given therapy by orphanage volunteers to help them "learn" about hearing and speaking.

We received news a few months ago that one of the teenagers was finally about to go home with his mother! Sometimes parents who leave their children at orphanages eventually have a reason to take them back. In this case, him getting hearing aides and therapy was a HUGE part of why he was able to come home!

Is this not one of the most amazing praise reports ever? I mean, this young boy is now able to live at home with his family. I cannot imagine how he must feel.

We can make a difference in this world. Even if we can only help one person, it means the world to them. And that is reason enough to try.

Thank you Father! If your eye is on the sparrow, then how much more is your eye on every one of your children here on earth?



Isn't that great stuff? Let's see if we can get some love to pour 

in for these kids. Donations are still very very much needed 

you guys. Can't do it without you!

-Lindsey

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Gardening 101

I heard a horrifying little piece of info the other day...Did you know that rinsing the produce you buy from the grocery store is virtually useless for washing away the pesticides that the growers use?  This is because the amount of pesticides used is so high that it actually seeps into the flesh of the fruit or vegetable. The kicker about this though is that experts say the pros of eating healthy still outweigh the cons of ingesting a little poison in the process.

SO, since the whole slogan of the LBDP is "Making do with less so that others can have more." I've decided to show you a few neat things about gardening! I don't know what your grocery bill looks like but I know that for my husband and myself, a big chunk of what we buy at the store is produce. It's great stuff to throw in with your cooking, for a side at supper or lunch time, or something to snack on or eat on the go. I realize that the growing season is quickly coming to a close. I would've written something on home grown veggies sooner if I wasn't such a novice. Nick and I grew our first garden this summer. So now that I have a little wisdom to share, I'll leave it here for y'all to store up ideas come next summer.

First off, you don't need a lot of room. Our yard is quite small and our vegetable patch takes up only a small area of the property. And you don't have to plant everything in rows.  Farms do it because they grow mass amounts of things and harvest it all by machine.  The rows on a farm need to be wide enough to allow the tires of those big old things through.  But in your own yard, you can pick it by hand. So the best way to make the most of your space is to plant  in squares.  For example, we have about a 3x3 foot square patch for our tomatoes, another for strawberries, and another for peppers and lettuce. The only thing you'd still want to plant in rows is corn. Corn likes its space! We made our rows about a hand width apart and a hand width between each seed in the rows. Also, if you decide to plant corn you should think about planting at least two rows. (It will pollinate better, and you'll have a much more successful crop.)
This is our tomato patch. Don't forget to fence it in! There are a lot of Peter Cottontails
who'll have a hay day in your garden if they can. Chicken wire is also decent at keeping
out beagles who have an unnatural love for cherry tomatoes.

Corn--all tidy in their rows.

Some plants grow on vines and need something to climb up. You can buy or invent your own type of trellace. 
Nick broke down an old rickety chair to make these bamboo climbing hoops for our cucumbers.

Another thing to think about is putting down some kind of mulch to make it harder for the weeds to grow up.  We used burlap bags instead. They are biodegradeable and Nick can take them from work for free. 
Here's me, picking a few banana peppers. Sorry, I don't wear the black dress when I garden.
Too dirty. Too sweaty. Too hard on chiffon and tulle fabric! 

Some plants are harder to start from seed than others. With things like tomatoes and peppers, it's better just to buy the starter plants and stick them in the ground. (My mother-in-law told me this and I'd take her advice. Her garden is AMAZING.) If you do start a plant from seed it might be easier to start growing it inside the house. Baby plants are more fragile. Give them a head start out of the elements and they might do better. However, some plants are more hardy than others. If you start a crop from seed, do some quick research on what you want to plant. 

Plants bear their fruits or veggies differently. For example, corn finishes its growing cycle and is ready to be harvested at the end of the summer. So there is no corn until then and when it comes, it comes all at once. Staggering the rows by a week or so will keep you from having too much all at once. Peppers, lettuce, and tomatoes, on the other hand, will bear fruit continuously throughout the summer. When you see things are getting ripe, pick them, and watch others grow in! You can count on a steady stream of fresh produce from these types of plants. 
The bounty.

If you've read all this and are saying, "Well, Lindsey this is all well and good but I live in an apartment." have no fear. Do you have a window? Awesome. Container gardens are great too! Pick up some potting soil and some planting pots and go nuts!  There are a variety of containers for indoor gardens to suit different plants' needs. (Some pots keep the soil more dry or moist.) So do your homework before you go shopping. There are a lot of pluses to this type of garden. Virtually no weeds inside! Not too many bugs either, if that's not your thing. I'd also recommend this type of garden for people who don't enjoy the outdoors so much but still want to save on their grocery bills.   Keep in mind that some plants have to be pollinated by bees or other bugs to produce anything, so if you can't set your plants outside at anytime, make sure you get a plant that does just dandy by itself. 

For anyone who has never gardened before, this may seem like a lot to take in, but it's not that bad, I promise! It's even a lot of fun! Remember, this was my first go at it. And some things might die on you. (like bugs kept eating our cucumbers D: ) but don't let that get you down, no one has a perfect season. We have saved a ton on our grocery bill these past couple of months.  If this really struck your interest I highly recommend picking up a copy of a book called "The Backyard Homestead". It has a wealth of information in an easy to understand format. This book also will tell you how to can your crops to use throughout the colder months, make jam, and how to rotate your crops each growing season and much much more. 

So if you're saving some money, you can pay some extra bills, go on a special date, or maybe give a little of that wealth back to a charity or a good cause like The Little Black Dress Project. ;)
Thanks for reading,

-Lindsey

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

The Big Two-Zero-Zero

200 days. 


Wow...I can hardly believe it. It feels long and short all at the same time. 





A little photo shoot courtesy of Maggie Cole. 
And once again, wow.

Tuesday, July 12, 2011

Expectation Vs. Reality

Man, people. I tell you that I have enjoyed being able to wear the little black dress as a little black vest. This prolonged period of dress wearing has made me very aware that I am not the most lady like person. Most times I prefer to sit indian style as opposed to crossing my legs.  Which you can't do in public in a dress. :(

Also, it happens from time to time that a rogue breeze or fan will catch hold of your skirts and blow them upwards, giving the community a little sneak. Now, I'm sure you're all aware of that famous little scene where Marilyn Monroe is walking over the street vent and it blows her dress up, and somehow it's glamorous and sexy and she still manages to look abashed and hold it down a bit.

I have even made a couple little illustrations so that the audience may better compare and contrast.

Well, when it happens to me, I spaz out.  And I have about as much grace and reaction time as a sloth so I never can hold things down in time, or I have a hard time holding the dress down everywhere.  My worst ever experience of this happening was at salvage store where Nick and I were perusing their building materials.  A big industrial sized fan blew unexpectedly at my backside and blew my dress up before I could stop it.  Nearby was an old couple who looked mildly offended, and some pervy looking construction guys, who saw way more than the faucet selection that day. 

Ah, yes, it is good to have a variety of options, for a variety of reasons.

-Lindsey

Saturday, July 2, 2011

Altered

So, I am about half way through this bad boy! Can you guys believe it? And in honor of it being the halfway mark I have cut the dress straight down the middle.

That's right! I made it so I can wear it as an over jacket too! Yay me! I did a pretty good job, me thinks.




Same old dress. Brand new possibilites.

-Moi.